While as of late some parents believe that it is better for there to be “no losers” in children’s sports, these adults may be doing their children a disservice in the long run.
In the real world there are still winners and losers
Kids should learn young that there will be winners and losers through out the course of life. Learning this young by playing sports such as tee ball, soccer and youth basketball is a good way for kids to begin learning this lesson. Even though the child’s team may lose a game one week and be disappointed, the next week they may win. This can show children that there are second chances in life. When one door closes another opens. In adult life, they will deal with situations such as being denied an internship or not getting their dream job after a round of grueling interviews.
The Joy of Winning
Children should be proud when they win. Having no winners of sports games may make kids feel that it is wrong to be proud of an achievement. Achievements through out life deserve to be celebrated. When your child graduates as valedictorian, wins a poetry contest or gets a promotion at work you would want them to be proud. So teach them that special feeling at a young age, by allowing them to win at youth sports.
Losing and being a Good Sport
In life, neither adults or children can win all the time. Even though a young kid may be disappointed or even cry s after losing a sporting event, it’s okay. It’s a normal part of the learning process. Show your child have to be a gracious loser by always congratulating the winning team and wishing them well. Show children that not all losers have to sulk. The losing team can still go out for ice cream or pizza and discuss their plan to improve for the next game.
